cultivate the heart and nature

This weekend, I attended a conferecne about religion. The target was how to cultivate the heart and nature. We should not be let by external factors affect ourselves, but be as hard as iron and stone. We should learn how to identify whether the thing is true or not. We should understand helping people is equal to helping ourselves. We had better think more others than ourselves. We had better introspect ourselves but not criticize others. We should learn the way of examint our mind when we go to bed everynight. Therefore, we could know what we did is wrong and find which one we can do will be better even the best. As a consequence, we might not take the same mistake twice even be more successful. Finally, the most important and the most basic thing is filial towards our parents. One of the reasons is they not only the most intimate with us but also volunteer to do more things for oueselves than for themselves without payment. The other is if we want to be at the top of society, we must be able to live with our families in pease and deal with problems well at the first step.